DD is soon to be 3 and we can not for the life of us get her out of sleeping in our bed. She’s still waking multiple times in the night. She doesn’t have day time naps, they’ve been long gone! She attends nursery full time so is on the go all day. Even in the cold winter weather we wrap up every evening and go for a little local walk “around the block” her and her older sibling. She attends swimming lessons every Saturday so she’s active for her age. Tea, bath, story and bed. She’s a dream going asleep. No issues, in her own bed and she’s asleep in the matter of 15/30 minutes by 7:30. Come 10pm she’s awake rattling at her bedroom door. She will not allow us to sooth her back asleep in her own bed. She will carry on kicking and screaming so yes we give in and let her into ours. Building a rod for our own backs but we’re tired and fiancé is up 5am for work and we don’t want her waking her sibling too. She will fall asleep very quickly in our bed so we transfer her into her own but she doesn’t last. Give it 40 mins to a hour and she’s up again. Same carry on. Multiple times a night in the end we just leave her in our own bed. We are exhausted, we’re not sleeping properly. We can’t spend time a couple in bed and it’s really taking a toll on our relationship. We are a very intimate couple and we really enjoy that time together. At the moment we can’t even have a cuddle in bed. It’s frustrating and exhausting. We’ve tried everything and nothing seems to work, people say it won’t last long but right now it feels like an eternity and it will never end. Any tips for two exhausted parents??