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Got super angry at my son! Mum guilt!

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zooz94 · 11/01/2026 21:38

Hey guys! My youngest son M(8) has been nagging and moaning ALL DAY and we went out for lunch and went to his grandparents and everyone had a great time but he was just miserable and kept saying ‘I’m bored! I’m bored!’…fast forward to bedtime and we come home, I tell the kids they need to finish homework, get in pjs and they can use their screens for a little before bed (my kids only get screens on weekends) - anyway I came to tell my son it’s bedtime and he lost his mind! Threw my charger to the ground and had a tantrum - at his age I don’t accept this behaviour. Now usually I would ignore him and walk away or if I’m in a good mood I’d talk to him sternly and say that’s not acceptable and send him to bed. However, I was exhausted, I yelled so loud and sent him to bad.
god I feel awful. He’s sleeping now and my mum guilt won’t let me rest.

how do you guys deal with tantrums at 8 years old! Surely he should have outgrown this! My daughter is 11 and hasn’t had a tantrum in years!

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pilates · 11/01/2026 21:42

Please do not fret over this we’ve all done it. It will be soon forgotten - we are only human after all.

Monvelo · 11/01/2026 21:46

8 is still very young. I've been told / read that boys have a hormone change around age 8 so perhaps that plays in. Certainly my 8 year old will occasionally have an outburst. From your sons perspective, I guess he felt like he didn't have time in the day to do what he wanted to do. That doesn't excuse the behaviour but could be a place of understanding to start from. I'm sure you can chat it through in the morning, you can apologise for losing your temper and hopefully he will too.

Gagamama2 · 11/01/2026 21:50

Oh sending lots of sympathy. Maybe he needed to hear it. I wouldn’t beat yourself up, it’s one day out of hundreds and Tbf he sounds like he had been a pain all day. Sometimes they need to hear it. My son (10) was the same today. Irritable with everyone, stropping over stupid things, multiple storms up to his bedroom slamming the door and ranting. When he refused to come down for an early eve roast I also lost my shit at him and told him he’d been a misery all day and to come down and eat his bloody dinner. Little mood hoover. Was much nicer after dinner.

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zooz94 · 11/01/2026 22:34

Gagamama2 · 11/01/2026 21:50

Oh sending lots of sympathy. Maybe he needed to hear it. I wouldn’t beat yourself up, it’s one day out of hundreds and Tbf he sounds like he had been a pain all day. Sometimes they need to hear it. My son (10) was the same today. Irritable with everyone, stropping over stupid things, multiple storms up to his bedroom slamming the door and ranting. When he refused to come down for an early eve roast I also lost my shit at him and told him he’d been a misery all day and to come down and eat his bloody dinner. Little mood hoover. Was much nicer after dinner.

Haha thanks that makes me feel better!!

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