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I don’t understand toddler car seats

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andanotherproblem · 11/01/2026 20:37

I need to buy a car seat for my 20 month old, I know it’s best to rear face as long as possible so I will be doing that. I just don’t understand which ones are good and which aren’t, I joined a Facebook group but they recommended £400+ from their own company, which makes sense, I was looking at Joie but some say they’re bad and not safe, do I need to increase my budget or is it scaremongering?

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VikaOlson · 11/01/2026 20:37

Joie seats are fine.

OopsieeDaisy · 11/01/2026 21:36

Joie seats are fine, however the rear-facing limits will be lower than some specialist brands. If you have a look at your child’s weight and height centiles, you should be able to get an idea of what age they would outgrow the seat limits.

Noideawhatiam · 11/01/2026 21:40

Joie are fine, but if you wanted something with a bigger height and weight limit you can get the Britax Max safe pro for under £200

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Cosleepingadvice · 11/01/2026 21:51

Noideawhatiam · 11/01/2026 21:40

Joie are fine, but if you wanted something with a bigger height and weight limit you can get the Britax Max safe pro for under £200

I agree with this. ^

We've had a couple of different Joies and then a Britax Max Safe Pro, and the Britax looks loads comfier and DD1 is always asleep in it from the off. Shes a tall 4.5yo and still has lots of room in it. Graco Slimfits are also a good affordable option.

Superscientist · 11/01/2026 22:52

How big is your child and how big do you expect them to be when they turn 4?

We rear faced until 5 with the maxi Cosi mica 360 spin seat with my daughter. We only moved her because baby 2 came along. She's 2nd percentile and would have been 104 cm around 5 and a half. There was no need to look at the extended rear facing seats.

It's worth trying to work out roughly what height and weight will be when you will want to move on to the next seat so you get the most out of the seat you buy.

BertieBotts · 17/01/2026 12:22

Joie seats are absolutely fine! They are a bit more basic than some brands, and sometimes it's worth paying a bit more for comfort or practicality, but as far as safety goes, they are a very good way to achieve safety on a budget. They are miles above some of the very dubious online-only brands which are around.

For a 20 month old these are all the kinds of seat you could buy, starting with 2 that I'd probably recommend looking at first. Rear facing is probably the most important thing you can do safety-wise, for as long as possible, so both of the best fit options allow continued rear facing.

If you have an idea of direction from these descriptions then I'd be happy to go into further detail.

"Best fit" for most people:

Isofix spin seat - up to about "4 years", with base permanently attached e.g. Joie i-Pivot, Britax Dualfix, Cybex Sirona. They can be used rear facing usually all the way up to the 105cm/~18-20kg limit, or you can turn forward facing when you're ready. They don't have a lot of leg room for rear facing mode but they are a great compromise if you want to RF a bit longer but you know you don't want to stick with it long term, and/or if you are TTC again, so you'll be able to hand the seat to a younger sibling. Lasts until about age 4, but for a very big/tall child, possibly only about age 3.

Swedish type ERF - designed for more comfortable, long term rear facing up to approx 6/7 years max (you do not have to use them this long of course!) They do not face forwards. Yes some cost about £400 - but they start at about £200 and there are often offers around. They are usually worth considering if you're keen on the safety benefits of extended rear facing, because they're more compact in the car, have good leg room for older children and will last as long as you need regardless of whether you choose to switch to FF/booster seat at age 4/5/6+, so can save money, esp if you have a taller/heavier than average child and would need to buy an extended harness or extended RF seat long term anyway.

Seat types for 3 specific situations:

Dedicated FF seat - no booster - probably Britax Trifix 2, Cybex Anoris T or Britax King Pro (if it needs to be seatbelt fit). As said - not great to be FF at 20mo, but if that is your strong preference, then aim for a seat which is designed solely for this stage and isn't having to make compromises by accommodating the booster stage as well.

Budget RF seat - If you want to stay rear facing for the safety benefits but are on a tight budget, you might consider some of the belt fitted seats under £100 like Halfords Impala, Joie Stages, Graco Extend R129. There are some drawbacks in that the shell length tends to be short so you'll need another seat before age 4. They also can be awkward to use in terms of posting child over/under the seatbelt. But they are a good safe option if your budget is vv tight, you don't have your own car, or you need a spare/second seat for another caregiver. It is worth noting that Graco Turn2Me and the original Joie 360 Spin are often available for around £120 if you want/need to spend less but prefer the isofix/spin style.

Base compatible modular seat - if you already have an isofix base for your baby seat and there is a compatible toddler seat for it, sometimes this is worth buying if it has a feature you like (e.g. Besafe Beyond) or if it is on a good price offer. However, most of the time these are more expensive than but almost identical or slightly worse than the 360 spin base-attached model from the same brand, and it takes the base out of use if you want to sell your infant carrier or have another baby. So, usually a false economy.

Seat types to avoid:

Forward facing harness + booster combo - they tend not to be well designed for children this young, or sometimes fairly lacking in their overall safety. If on a budget stick with a budget RF seat, if FF is the priority, look at a dedicated harness/shield stage seat.

All stages "does everything" type seat - often poorly designed, difficult to use, restrictive (e.g. RF mode can only be on full recline), bulky, and/or expensive - a false economy. 10+ years is also a very long time to use one car seat. It's almost always cheaper and better to get a cheaper seat from the first 2 categories at around £150-200, then a basic or mid range high back booster, around £50-100. (A decent all-stages seat is about £350, the ones under £200 tend to be especially bad). People sometimes get on alright with them, but you'll get a better experience by specialising to the stage you're at, in general.

BertieBotts · 17/01/2026 12:23

Apologies I have just noticed you already said about wanting to RF in your OP Grin sorry - just went off on the usual spiel without checking. Anyway, hope it's helpful.

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