I’d love others opinions that doesn’t know me…
The last 6 months has been a rollercoaster after seperating from my 21 month olds dad.
He’s been difficult saying he loves his son and misses him but then not being the best at effort, not paying for him, cutting hours short having him.
I agreed to our son staying over on Christmas Eve for the first time because my eldest daughter was at her dads this year so thought it made sense then next year we’re all together.
He didn’t have him he blamed it on not getting paid. Fine.
Christmas Day I took him there, after 3 hours he was calling saying do you wanna come get him he’s tired and I don’t want him not napping to ruin my day he won’t nap when I’ve told him. So I got him (my thought is if you don’t want him then I do!)
Then this weekend suppose to have him one day he asked for him to come later because he hadn’t slept well (I was frustrated at this) then he cancelled said he wasn’t going out he had a migraine … asking what plans I had.
He promised my elder daughter money for Christmas she got nothing.
We agreed on a £30 budget to get each other a present from our son so he could give us both something I got his he didn’t get mine - no thank you or reason to why… I never asked .
Am I right to be annoyed I feel like there’s no effort !!