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Worried about friend’s kid

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Janejanejaneagain · 05/12/2025 17:15

Friend is SAHM, and has never done antenatal groups, playgroups, classes. Not doing nursery and intends to keep child out of school until 6 years old. Mother is naturally quite introverted. Father is around but has never been left alone with the child (!), changed a nappy etc. Kid is about to be 3.

kid seems fine but very introverted, is very focused on mother and doesn’t like interacting with anyone else. Kid always, always seems grumpy and upset, but maybe that’s just what kids are like at that age? Well looked after apart from that.

there may be not much I can do but I would have thought at least using the free funded hours at nursery would be good for the kid’s development. Should I say something? My friend seems convinced that being looked after at home is the best thing for the kid’s attachment and sense of security.

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verycloakanddaggers · 13/12/2025 08:30

In a free society, you can report anything you think is illegal or harmful, but when something is not deemed to be over that line then parental choice applies.

If you feel concerned, then write down a factual list of what is happening and ask NSPCC if there is anything you should report.

ChikinLikin · 13/12/2025 08:38

Apart from the social deprivation, your friend is putting the child's health at risk. The child will have an undeveloped immune system and this can put them at risk of some really serious diseases.

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