I have a just turned 3 and just turned 1 year old. Most of the time I just bloody love it but now it's dark by 4 I'm finding it so hard to keep them entertained in the afternoon. They have such different needs and ideas of fun. I feel like I'm constantly getting it wrong and they end the day shouting and screaming.
The 3 year old is happy to play mainly by himself with a bit of help or input from me but my one year old just destroys and grabs whatever he is playing with. (Totally normal for age I know) It then results in chaos of both screaming or crying.
1 year old just wants to re arrange cupboards/open shut things/ take random objects for a tour of the house as walking is new to him but he needs constant supervision for this and then I feel like I'm neglecting my 3 year old.
I also only have a shower so putting them both in the bath isn't an option.
I'm using the TV far too much for my liking but it's the only way they don't annoy eachother.