Hi
fellow rainbow mum here and rainbow leader
Ok so I think I may be able to help.
firstly if others are getting badges then done grey yours will too - this I promise is a good sign of a good rainbow group. If you can't ask the leaders then chat to other mums about badges and see what ones they're kids are getting?
firstly addressing the promise:
The rainbow promise is a big thing there is a bit of prep and a ceremony associated with it so often we bulk kids together for these and do one a term or half term. If they still haven't done it by mid spring term definitely chase this.
as for badges there is no technical restriction to getting badges before the promise is taken in rainbows the ONLY badge you can't get is the gold award badge. If you haven't had a badge book yet definitely ask for one. If they say that you can't have one until their promise is done then they aren't actually being fair to then not prioritise the or promises.
there are some old school leaders who refuse to give badges before promises but it's not how it works for rainbows as they're so little it's not the done thing now
right now badges
you have round badges called interest badges these you can do at home they're unlikely are the round ones
they're unlikely to do these in group but some of us try to do one now and again if we have a low badge group
there are 24 of them spread over 6 themes
know myself
have adventures
skills for my future
express myself
be well
take action
you'll need your child to do 3 challenges per interest badge but you can do them anyway you like (video, writing, drawing, collage, art photos etc) and either bring to rainbows and show the group or email / text a copy to the leader as applicable
Some leaders only award badges on particular weeks such as once a term or once a month as especially with a large group it can be very overwhelming but they should have told you this already.
then there are skills builder badges which again sit under each of the above themes
they are hexagons
these you can't do at home they're done in sessions as a group
they can be time consuming to complete and you do have to have regular attendance to get them
they must complete 4/5 activities to get one badge and the activities range from 20 min to an hour so usually it's a minimum of 3 weeks meetings to get this done
also the activities are occasionally a bit dry/ boring or take a lot of set up so we will often intersperse them with unit meeting activities and just general fun or seasonal crafts or visits etc.
They must also complete 120 min worth of unit meeting activity in a theme on top of any time spent on a skills builder to get a theme award. These activities are much more fun than skills builders but we do have skills builders they LOVE like first aid so don't worry. They range from games to challenges and role play and crafts. It's hard to do more than 45 min worth in a session. So it's 2-3 weeks to do this.
Then to get the theme award the rainbow has to have also done a corresponding interest badge of that theme
It's well worth asking the leader what theme they're working on this term and do one of those interest badges at home
Take photos or bring stuff in and hopefully they will get a badge.
As for the dismissiveness at drop off I'm sorry you've felt that way
I'm sure some of mine do too as I'm usually run ragged setting up especially if it's a big activity 🫣but I promise I'd be happy to talk to any of my rainbows parents about badges.
You can also check on go to see what they're working on we are supposed to log all the work on there but I'll admit it's a pain and I just use a spreadsheet 😫but I've had no complaints yet as my groups get lots of badges done and we have a group what's app for questions.