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Toddler bump on head

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BoyFTM645 · 23/11/2025 19:06

I feel so awful, i've spent the day feeling awful and like the worst mother in the world. I'm in bed sad now and can't sleep. I have a very active 14 month old boy. He's been walking since 10.5 months and he's constantly runnining, climbing, spinning etc. Today he fell and hit tbe top of his forehead on a sharp edge. I put ice on it which controlled the swelling but he does have a shallow cut still, about an inch long and a bruise.

He seems fine but I can't get over it. He's only had one other big injury so far, also happened under MY supervision. He tripped and bit his tongue. There was so much blood, it was horrific. He was fine, our next door neighbour is luckily a GP and took a look at him and said it was a minor bite but the tongue is very vascularized so it bleeds lots but heals well. He was fine and happy after 10 minutes but i was covered in blood. That was 3 months ago and I still think about it.

I don't know what I want from this post. I am trying to be more careful and supervise him better but tbh it feels impossible to have a hand on him at all times. Any tips welcome.

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Wishiwasatailor · 23/11/2025 19:16

Try not to worry too much it happens to them all. The human species would have died out before it started if toddler bumps and scrapes were disastrous. You did the right thing. Maybe look up some guidance on red flags in childhood injuries and illnesses to give yourself some confidence in knowing what and when to actually worry about!
spotting the sick child does some good online resources aswell as the HANDi or healthiertogether app.

i use this head injury advice sheet at work in paeds ED https://frimley-healthiertogether.nhs.uk/application/files/4516/2376/1064/NHS_Head_Injury_advice_sheet.pdf_April_21.pdf

https://frimley-healthiertogether.nhs.uk/application/files/4516/2376/1064/NHS_Head_Injury_advice_sheet.pdf_April_21.pdf

Wishiwasatailor · 23/11/2025 19:18

And yes fingers, face, head and tongue all bleed a lot because of the blood vessels close to the surface which means they heal the quickest

Boogiemam · 23/11/2025 19:25

Tips? Give yourself a break! Toddlers will hurt themselves and you can watch them like a hawk 24/7 but accidents still happen. My 4 year old gave herself a black eye climbing into bed 😂 They attract injury, especially toddler age.

Take a breath, try and relax and get some sleep.

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