Learning to ride a bike rurally, where?!

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I have a 3 year old who has a balance bike. He loves his bike and enjoys it, but he hardly ever gets to use it. We live in a very small house, with a tiny garden in a small (very) rural market town/village. He can’t ride his bike from our house, the pavements are super narrow and uneven, with cars doing 30mph+ within cm of your body when walking on the pavement. The village is surrounded by arable countryside.

Everywhere is a drive away, and all the places we’d go would be woods/fields etc where we walk the dog. So yes he can ride his bike there but it feels a bit tough for him always being among the mud and tree roots. He struggles to really get going on his balance bike and isn’t getting the practice he needs to move up to a pedal bike any time soon.

What do people do in this situation? I always think of children riding their bikes in the park, but the nearest park with enough paving to do a cycling lap/walk on would be 35 mins away.

Neither his dad nor I are ‘bike people’, I mean we all HAVE bikes, we can ride them, but I wouldn’t be confident cycling on the roads near where we live, everyone is easily driving at 50-60mph, very narrow lanes and sharp bends. And I certainly wouldn’t feel safe taking him on my bike in a seat, trailer or tag long bike. I would only ride my own bike if we went somewhere specifically to go for a bike ride, like one of the woodland trails I mentioned.

I just feel like he’s missing out a bit. I grew up on a very leafy, old fashioned housing estate (it was built in the 70s so wasn’t like modern estates, huge open spaces, wide roads and pavements, mainly detached houses etc). and my sister and I were always off on our bikes. Every pavement, probably miles of them around the whole estate, was perfectly safe to ride on, with some woodland and countryside available for when we were older and more adventurous.

What do you think? Any suggestions or thoughts?

Canal paths?

We have two parks within a couple of miles that have safe off road solid tracks round the outside. Perhaps if you put a post on Facebook you might find there is somewhere more local. We also have a couple of old railway tracks that have very level, mud free surfaces and again traffic free. Maybe have a google for cycle routes near you.

https://www.walkwheelcycletrust.org.uk/national-cycle-network/
You can search on here for safe cycle routes.
Other than that, are there any playgrounds, sports pitches, tennis courts or grassy areas in your town? Little ones on balance bikes don't need huge amounts of space, IME they are quite happy freewheeling down small hills over and over again.

Is there a grass park or playing field in your town? Short grass is good for balance bikes and it's good for learning a pedal bike as it hurts less to fall. When he gets bigger he can use a scooter on the pavements.

Ask on your local FB page for recommendations. We are not too far from Windsor, and took ours to Windsor Great Park - lovely roads no traffic no potholes, and Eton Dorney Rowing Lake (where they did the Olympics). Lovely flat paths round the lake. Cafe in the garden centre over the road.

One of our friends used to take his DCs to the GP surgery car park at weekends for bike practice.
Are there any nice smooth car parks for public buildings which are not used at weekends and which don't have barriers?

Is there a club near you? British Cycling Go Ride clubs for children tend to use either purpose built cycling facilities or other traffic free venues like carparks, school playgrounds or similar. You can use the club finder on the British Cycling website to look for suitable clubs in your area.
www.britishcycling.org.uk/clubfinder

We went to a 'learn to ride' thing the local leisure centre was running last summer. The had big all whether hockey pitches that were great. Perfectly flat, enclosed and big enough for kids to go a reasonable distance. We did extra practice in the tennis court at a local park, but it wasn't as good, by the time they'd got past the wobbly start and bult up enough momentum, they were at the other end.

Are you in the Fens? I live in a similar area to what you’ve described but in a village with no pavement and a speed limit of 40 mph. Luckily our road isn’t too busy and is straight with good visibility so we used to go on the road, initially with me walking and the child on a balance bike or one with stabilisers. Once they progressed to a normal bike without stabilisers, I could cycle too. We discovered a little side road that only leads to farmland and a handful of houses which was great as once we got there there was no traffic at all. Maybe you could find something similar. Like a PP said, your best bet is to ask on a local FB group.

Anywhere with a car park. Use when the business is closed.

We used the supermarket, the small local airport, a hotel and the council office.

What do you have nearest to you?

Business parks on weekends, or in the area i live business parks that the council have built all the roads for and no businesses have ever moved in. Also good for skateboarding apparently (well the one on the big hill is!).

Is there a flat-ish bit of quiet road near you? There are a couple which we found both of which led to clusters of 4 or 5 houses. DH & I would stand about 10m away from each other and the DC would cycle from us. We increased between us over time.

Paved cycle trail or even just flat mown (non muddy) grass. My youngest learned just riding around in our garden (it’s a big garden). But dd (and also me as a child) learned in an empty car park. My parents took me to a business park that was closed on the weekends, quiet corner of an industrial estate or similar would work. I also learned to drive there too when the time came. 😂

Are you anywhere near a reservoir with an accessible path around?
DS did learn on woodland paths

Football pitch, school playground, canal paths, park paths there should be something like that.

We went to a big parkway station car park that was very infrequently served at weekends.

There was also a National Trust property with a really long surfaced path that was great - I spent an entire afternoon practising stopping and starting with them there.

I grew up in the woods, didn't learn to ride a bike til 12 for that reason. Same for my son who learned at 8.
But I don't understand why you want him to learn now when it doesn't sound like either of you like cycling, there's nowhere for him to go, the road not suitable for him yet, etc
Just leave it. When he needs transport and wants to get out with his mates get him one then.

I learned to ride in a supermarket car park when it was closed on a Sunday.