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Moving up in activity issues - am I expecting too much?

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weisatted · 08/11/2025 12:29

My 6 year old just moved up in his activity - he was on the 3-5 class and now he is in the 6-10 class.

He is really ready to move up as the younger class is now full of 3 year olds and he just doesn't want to be in there any more but the older class isn't really working.

It is a different teacher and a huge age range (though not that many kids - 12 or so total).My son finds the teacher and style a bit intimidating and basically just sits on the side. Unless I say something to the assistant teacher, and ask for her help getting him involved, what seems to happen is they just ignore him. Their attitude seems to be that if he doesn't want to join in, they will just leave him there until he does. Is this reasonable at his age?

I don't expect them to baby him or give him loads of individual attention but just ignoring him completely doesn't feel right? I think he needs a bit of encouragement to join in, perhaps partnering him (it's that kind of activity) with one of the other kids he has moved up with. When I said this to the teacher, he kind of agreed to try it but basically implied my son just needs to join in and get on with it and left me feeling like maybe I am being a bit overly demanding.

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selondon28 · 08/11/2025 12:32

What’s the activity? My son recently moved up in Scouts from Squirrels (ages 4-6) to Beavers (ages 6-8) and the leaders have done a great job of settling the younger kids in and including them. So I would not be happy with them just being left on the side until they feel ready to join in, as that won’t necessarily happen automatically.

weisatted · 08/11/2025 12:40

It's capoeira - a gentler more free form martial art

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