My daughters behaviour has always been challenging - demanding/tantrums ect but always put it down to second child/more difficult girls syndrome. But we have just returned from the holiday of a lifetime all built around her wants- and to be frank her behaviour ruined it. The behaviour ranges from complete disobedience, to baby voice all day, to biting and barking at us when she is told off, to being hyperactive and talking in a foreign accent (German) constantly,asking to be carried 100 times. I would call it as it is and call her a spoiled brat but she has so many more issues like a tic, anxiety, social issues. I work with teenage girls every day - I have realistic expectations about her behaviour but this week has shown me exactly how badly she behaves for us. Starting to really affect my 10 year old boy- he wished in a wishing Well this week she would behave well so we would all stop being so stressed 🥲 I really don’t think she is autistic. As I say I work with girls every day - I’m a teacher who refers kids for autism diagnosis but I appreciate it’s a spectrum. The difficult think is she is so well behaved in school, appreciate she could be masking but she also tells me she is good because there are consequences. 🙃 there are consequences at home, we have barred her from party’s, run a gold star scheme. Etc but nothin seems to make a consistent improvement. I can’t pretend this is a phase anymore, please help with advice x