Basically, this has been on going since I was pregnant with ds2, he said I wasn't doing enough with ds1 and wasn't mixing him with others kids enough, taking him on trips out and such even though 3 times out the week we went to play centres or other trips out involving other kids.
However at the time I was around 30 weeks pregnant absolutely exhausted, with dc1 only being around 12 months too. And then turned it around once I tried doing more and said I was doing too much I was never in the house with him.
We resolved this after a couple of arguments about it and thought we were through with the blame game till now.
Now apparently tonight, after me feeding dc1, playing with him, reading him 6 books whilst he was sat on his phone watching videos on social media, I asked him to change dc1 for bed. He then turned round and asked me to do it. It was like I'd asked the world. Baring in mind he's not been at work the past few days due to leave, dc2 was having a nap the whole time so we haven't had to do anything for him. He moaned at me saying dc1 is too clingy to me (which I admit at the moment he is a bit clingy but it's because he's teething and slightly under the weather and has been for a few days) and that I may as well do it because quote 'he's all you' baring in mind I'm also exhausted, so I basically said that's not an excuse to not help out, and then dc1 started crying because he's obviously tired, so then he accused me of making dc1 a 'tit' and that he only wants me not him. I've had to come away from the situation as it's made me so angry. I'm still on maternity leave, I spend every hour of the day with my boys which I absolutely love but obviously it's exhausting. I never ask him to do too much as he's at work so he's also obviously tired but like I said he's been off the past couple days on leave.
I just feel like I don't get how I've done anything wrong.
Am I in the wrong here?