My ds is 4 and has a couple of friends in our street, he’s never allowed out without me but his friends parents let them play out by themselves. This means they end up knocking my door and ds invites them into play which I hate! I didn’t mind so much at the start when they were well behaved but as they’ve got more comfortable they cause fights, snatch toys, tell tales constantly like if ds is playing with something and won’t hand it over straight away they’re shouting he’s not sharing. They come in scream shout, run about my house mad when I’m trying to fry stuff done and quite honestly I hate the sight of them at the door! I end up telling them off every single time which they’re not used to at home so they then leave in a huff in the middle of playing with my child who gets quite upset then as he can’t understand why they come in and go so quickly. I’m heavily pregnant and dread the thought of this on top of a newborn, parents know they are here and are happy with it because to them it’s free babysitting while they get their stuff done and my house ends up trashed every time. How do I deal with this without causing rows in our street. I know I’m getting snappier with them quicker but it’s just because I know what’s coming as soon as I see them knock.