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Stopping breastfeeding tips!

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Bondog172 · 18/09/2025 12:42

My little girl has just turned 1. I’ve exclusively breastfed for the year but I am READY to stop. But she is a true boob barnacle and not having it!
I have just returned to work and she has started with a childminder (much to her dismay). She is not great with her food but always offered 3 meals a day, plus snacks. At first I thought that would be be enough but after much distress at the childminders I have now established her accepting expressed milk from a bottle which she has one during the day and I now put her to bed with this too! (Accepting a bottle is a breakthrough and I’m now gradually combining it with cows milk) so in terms of day time breastfeeding I believe I am in the clear from now on 🥳 .
My issue is now the night time… she’s never been a great sleeper, always woke for night feeds but with all these new changes she is just getting worse. To the point where the only way I can get any sleep is by having her in bed with me and she is attached to me all night. Not necessarily feeding, mostly just using me as a dummy. - I have tried introducing actual dummies, these don’t make the cut.
I know with all these changes she’s obviously seeking more comfort and closeness at night but PLEASE I am done breastfeeding I need tips to stop the night feeds/suckling/waking!?

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OtterMummy2024 · 18/09/2025 13:22

Do you have a partner your can send to do night settles? While I was still breastfeeding, three baby would settle at night for daddy but not for me without a feed.

Bondog172 · 18/09/2025 13:35

@OtterMummy2024 we tried this, but she seemed to just become more distressed unfortunately

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