My DC is 5 and ex husband has been so unbelievably inconsistent in his life even after trying ever thing apart from meditation/court.
Ex messaged to see DC after almost 7 weeks of not seeing them , after years not only his emotional abuse but this inconsistency and it clearly affecting my DC, I finally flipped and said until he can email a schedule he can actually stick too every week that contact will no longer be happening. Probably not the right thing but there we go.
He said he would do this, however t's now been a over week and not a word which is fine by me however I'm now beyond anxious of if/when he does turn around and send something which he won't stick to again after a few weeks he won't stick too again.
Don't want to be this person but my child is better off without him and wish he'd go far away and leave us alone.
He would never turn around and actually admit he doesn't want to see his child though!
Just finding it hard to just "go with it" And waiting to see if he messages as a part of me knows he will but also I'm not actually sure if he will tbh! Just so frustrating!