My partner is often sooo good with our kids. We have one together who is 2.5 years and my partnerd boy who stays with us every weekend.
I work 16 hours and pay for the food shop. While he works full time and pays for the bills. A few months back I offered to do the food shop and noticed he was able to buy more things for himself which I was happy about.
Today I'm unsure if it's because I'm due on (very late talk about 14 days late) but I have the implant in so feel it's probably this even though I've had regular periods for 2.5 years since our daughter was born.
Anywho, I just feel everything is me. I plan the meals I go out shopping while he sits on his phone. He did lunch for the kids today and went onto a new task emailing evri back sat at the dining room table while the water was boiling I asked if he wanted me to put the eggs in to boil, nothing no response asked again if he wanted me to put the eggs in again nothing, asked a final time with a oh? I guess not and he immediately chirped up and said oh sorry yes please. So I did. I proceeded to cook while he writes an email take the eggs off and throw them in cold water there was no plates as noone decided to clean them yesterday so I start doing this, and that was it I just turned round and said no I'm not doing this, everything feels like me, I've gotta do this and that without even a thank you and that's when he stopped emailing and got off his bum and decided to finish the task. This happened yesterday when I asked them to take the "ant farm" off the kitchen table and had immediate back chat off my partners boy. Which infuriated me more because they weren't gonna move it it was "down to me as I wanted it to be moved" if I'm honest I'm just feeling a whole lot of overwhelm at the moment and don't feel appreciated what so ever in what I do. He's had a bad leg so most evenings I get on with doing our daughter no questions asked but normally there's lots of team work between us. If I'm honest I think I just need a rant and hoping someone out there can rationalise honestly I'm just exhausted 🫩