Hi,
I’ll briefly explain: my ex has been letting another grown man sleep in the same room as my youngest who’s autistic and nonverbal. On top of that her partner expressed anger and physical aggression towards myself and others. My children said they feel safe and according to my ex it was a huge misunderstanding. She also goes for naps leaving my three children alone, I will mention my eldest is 14 now but I feel it’s not his responsibility to watch his siblings especially my youngest as he requires adult support and interpretation.
I spoke with my local council ( childcare department) who said they can’t act but should be reported to police, with regards to children the mum would need a ‘word’ explaining what should and shouldn’t happen on visits) my children came back from their next visit saying they don’t know if their mum and her partner shared a room with my youngest but she’s still leaving them alone to go and sleep during the day.
i didn’t report to the police last time as my ex explained to her partner that it’s not acceptable to speak like that to or around children as he’s unfamiliar with uk laws, but also because her partner is on a visiting visa and I’m trying not to seem petty as she is very upset I have a partner myself but I feel I’ve given her every chance and even other organisations communicating with her yet she still ignores it….what should I do?