My oldest child is autistic, she has very challenging behaviour and I struggle with her on my own, taking her out to places is tricky and she often kicks off over the smallest of things, I still want my other children to have a childhood and not be trapped in the house so I preserve, however her challenges have increased since she's got older (everyone told me it would get easier it's 100 times harder 😩) my other children have therefore started to help out with her when we are out if she does kick off as I'm finding it to hard on my own now. She's getting bigger, stronger and faster, I have my own health issues so can't always chase her or catch up with her she's got faster than me now so my other children will run after her and get her if she does kick off till I can catch up with her. Someone told me this is wrong and they shouldn't be doing this? But I'm not sure what the alternative is? Never take her out or be trapped at home? It's the 6 weeks holidays and I'm trying to do things with my children and do days out.