My ex left me 7 weeks ago, after nearly 4years together.
My ex and our daughter (2yrs) had an amazing bond, he was the stay at home parent and I worked full-time. He left due to my other children and "drama" which always got carried over from their dads side, like social services involvement, my son also has ASD and ADHD. My other children are here when he visits and he obviously knew that I had kids when I got with him and their problems.
At first, when he left he was visiting everyday then it went to other other now for the last 3 weeks its just Fri, Sat and Sun, for 2-3hrs but it has to be at my house.
I understand he doesn't have anywhere to take her, he has no family only a grandma who lives 5 hours away and he lives in a house share but surely I don't have to facilitate his contact with his daughter.
I am also very much still in love with him, which always makes it uneasy for me to be around him. How do I go about discussing this with him, without him completely not seeing our daughter? Or should I just continue to facilitate as I don't want my daughter to loose contact.
I must add nothing is bitter better us, I've stayed so calm and not even shouted/argued about him leaving.
Any advice would be appreciated?
Thanks
H