Co parenting advice :(

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Just after some advice:(. I’ve had to leave my husband for cheating. This is all rather raw it happened 3 days ago. We have 2 children. My daughter is 2.5 and my son is 1.5.

Those of you that coparent how did you come to an agreement on who has the kids on what days? I feel so angry that he’s done this to us & now I have to suffer losing my babies each week to him. I can’t bear it. And they’re so young, my son is so clingy to me, it breaks my heart.

Anyway, for me i always envisioned he will have the kids every other weekend. But I have a feeling he won’t be happy with that.

What did you do please? Thank you.

Firstly I’m so sorry this has happened. My ex husband cheated on me and I subsequently filled for divorce, my youngest was 3 at the time. Maybe start by writing down what it would look like for the best interests of the children and also think about any commitments each have and factor that in too, think about any commitments you have too. However be prepared that you husband will probably have his own ideas too and it’s about compromise. If you can’t agree then look to mediation. I unfortunately ended up in court as it got so messy

my ex husband unexpectedly passed away 2 years ago