Good morning currently my ex has a court order for contact . I have residence he has contact he wanted minimal contact and constantly cancels as his wife lives back home in Albania . When ever he has contact he refuses to hand our daughter back to anyone but me . My 20 and 19 year old live at home if they go to the door he will refuse to hand her over . If her step dad goes to the door the same . He keeps telling her we r all dangerous and how she’s at risk in my care resulting in her telling him no and him shouting at her . ( this is what my daughter tells me as she comes home upset) she is 9 years old currently and completely hates contact to the point she refuses to go and I have to force her kicking screaming crying . I feel like my ex is trying to keep control . It was adv relationship . He got with me to be legal and he was illegal when we met I didn’t find out until I was pregnant and once he got his visa he left to be with his partner back home ( I didn’t know at the time ) either way he is still her father no matter what happened any advice please