Mu daughter is very unhappy with her bio dad. He’s very inconsistent in her life and he lives life to the absolutely fullest without her. So basically without going into to much detail as it’s a long one. He wasn’t in her life from the get go however he wanted to be a part of her life etc. we now have a court order which has been in place for the past year and a half and it’s just not gone how the order was set out. It’s difficult. He lives 2 hours away and as DD is getting a little older I mean she is only 3 years old. She has a very strong mind for a 3 year old and she knows what she wants when she wants. She screams when going with him to the point the past few times I have had to go in which I don’t like going as he makes me feel uncomfortable by passing sexual comments about me and touching me etc. I go as my daughter is very unsettled and distressed around him. She is a very happy little girl and loves everyone however she doesn’t take a liking to him. She screams when she sees him and she says no I don’t like him. It’s not nice to see. And the last time she done it. It was a very hard situation to handle. To the point he even said himself I can’t put her through this anymore. Basically saying he wasn’t going to back down. At least that’s how it sounded anyway from the things he said but then 5 minutes later said something else which indicated otherwise. I really don’t know what to do in this situation. He doesn’t do anything as a parent. He didn’t come to her first ever nursery sports day. He doesn’t come to nursery events. He doesn’t come to doctors apps if she was to have one. He doesn’t take part in her life other than see her once every blue moon for a few hours. It’s not consistent he also goes on around 5 holidays a year to big places. He’s just been to Japan. Paris. Poland. On a cruise. Ibiza. You name it he goes. Daughter only gets stuff if his parents go too. He couldn’t even take her the park when he had her alone once as I had stuff to do that day. It’s just becoming to much.