My 13 mo always been clingy, and it's tricky to get anything done because he wants to be held quite a lot. I do tell him to wait and etc, but I'm just waiting for the time he can play on his own. I guess every child is different and I really want to be responsive. If you had a velcro/clingy baby, when did they start to be more independent? He seems to be doing Oki in a nursery. Any tips?