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Mumto3soontob4 · 20/06/2025 10:36

Does anybody find this very strange so I only talk to my ex partner when it comes to our daughter I’ve asked him numerous times if her glasses are at his house he reads my messages and then ignores me now I don’t retaliate because he is working so I give him the benefit of doubt But then when he gets home, he’s told me that he has to show his messages to his partner because he cheated on her on a night out with some random girl in a pub now I know his girlfriend doesn’t like me and I’ve heard her numerous times slagging me off behind my back which I have ignored because she’s irrelevant to Me. It’s like now he isn’t allowed to answer messages from me until she’s checked them. That’s very controlling of her, isn’t it? And strange I have said to him that when it comes to our daughter, I expect him to respond to me with an answer as I would if he messaged me. This has to be a very unhealthy relationship, surely

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Goonie1 · 20/06/2025 18:46

I reckon that’s similar to my ex. Won’t speak to me in person when he collects/drops off, only urgent things on email/text which he takes a while to reply and I think it’s because he has to run it by his now partner. He had an affair with her while with me and I’ve heard on the grapevine that he’s since done the same to her (how true it is, I don’t know) but starting out a relationship under those circumstances doesn’t exactly scream trust!

Personally, IMO I think it’s controlling and a bit odd to be honest. I just thank my lucky stars that I’m not with him anymore and that my partner isnt one bit like that!

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