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Anyone used EarBuddies/ear splints at 5 months?

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Peonyyyy · 02/06/2025 16:45

My daughter has one ear that folds forward ( doesn’t have the crease in it that makes it go back towards the head) I have the exact same thing and my whole life I’ve been self conscious, avoiding wearing my hair up etc. never had the money to correct it and too embarrassed to ask my parents if I could get it corrected as a child/teenager (wish I had though!) I was never bullied for it because I simply hid it under my hair all the time, but it has really affected me. I had to make excuses all the time and would actually avoid things like sleepovers or having my hair done for prom or even for my wedding. I even feel embarrassed at the hair dressers because I know they must notice it.

anyway, my daughters ear kept folding forward as a newborn against her clothes when feeding or sleeping and I always tried to fold it back but eventually gave up.

I feel annoyed at myself that I’ve only just found out about EarBuddies and the NHS actually recommends ear splints for babies as a way to avoid bullying/surgery later on.

has anyone tried it at 5 months or later, did it work? How long did they wear them for?

im a bit worried about the inevitable questions when we go out or see friends/family but surely it’s better to get it over with now than when she becomes aware of it.

would love to hear any experiences, positive or negative. I believe as she’s older it will be harder and may have to stay on for several months. I want to do my best for her but also want it to be worth it

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Behbeh · 17/03/2026 21:38

Peonyyyy · 02/06/2025 16:45

My daughter has one ear that folds forward ( doesn’t have the crease in it that makes it go back towards the head) I have the exact same thing and my whole life I’ve been self conscious, avoiding wearing my hair up etc. never had the money to correct it and too embarrassed to ask my parents if I could get it corrected as a child/teenager (wish I had though!) I was never bullied for it because I simply hid it under my hair all the time, but it has really affected me. I had to make excuses all the time and would actually avoid things like sleepovers or having my hair done for prom or even for my wedding. I even feel embarrassed at the hair dressers because I know they must notice it.

anyway, my daughters ear kept folding forward as a newborn against her clothes when feeding or sleeping and I always tried to fold it back but eventually gave up.

I feel annoyed at myself that I’ve only just found out about EarBuddies and the NHS actually recommends ear splints for babies as a way to avoid bullying/surgery later on.

has anyone tried it at 5 months or later, did it work? How long did they wear them for?

im a bit worried about the inevitable questions when we go out or see friends/family but surely it’s better to get it over with now than when she becomes aware of it.

would love to hear any experiences, positive or negative. I believe as she’s older it will be harder and may have to stay on for several months. I want to do my best for her but also want it to be worth it

Did your daughter end up getting splints and did it work? My daughter is 4.5 months old and I’m wondering if I’ve missed the boat.

Peonyyyy · 18/03/2026 23:39

Hello, yes we did and it worked a treat ☺️

we didn’t keep them on long, only a few weeks which is much less than it said for this age but we found it tricky to keep redoing.

shes now 15 months and her ear looks pretty good, it’s not as good as when we first took the splint off but we are still happy with it and it’s much better than if we hadn’t done it.

I think that ear seems to have less cartilage which makes it ‘softer’, and the shape of her ear changes as she grows. But overall it’s definitely improved it.

I hope this helps.

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