Hi looking for some advice. I was a victim of DV emotional, physical and financial for 19 years. Separated in 2016 met someone knew 6 months later was friends for a while then fell in love and got married 2023. I have two DD to first marriage aged 10 and 15 and my current husband had two DS aged 14 and 17. We have boys 50% of the time and girls go to their dad’s weds and alternate weekends. The problem is my eldest daughter has never really accepted or got on with my current husband or the boys. After a recent disagreement she has told me she feels unhappy, out of place and lonely at home and asked to go live with her dad. I agreed temporarily but it has now been 8 weeks and she doesn’t want to come home and I have seen her a handful of times. My heart is broken and I am in turmoil she says it is nothing to do with her dad but I know it is. He lives alone and doesn’t work so has plenty of time for her. I work full time and I’m studying for a PhD. I know her dad has poisoned her against us he has convictions for assault and harassment against me. He treats her like an adult there is no discipline for example she had a run in with another girl during a football game and punched her in the face. Her coach said he hasn’t seen violence like this in a kids football game and she told me her dad said he was proud of her. I don’t want her to grow up like him a bully with no responsibility for her actions help!