Csa

[CSE123]

I have a problem with an ex who is the father of my. 1st child,, he. Pays hardly. Anything £30 a week if I'm lucky ..sometimes nothing ..must be how he feels as on the day if I'm to recieve anything or not ,,, he's very nasty says will grass me up....I've had another child after him,, we don't live together but get on well For the sake of our Child. He must mean grassing me up with this. Don't think I'm doing anything wrong by this....yes he stays sometimes but we not living together Like that.

So I'm feel very worried about taking him to csa,, he will prob make my life hell. I'm not sure if it's worth it or not. It's stressing me. Out

Do you mean CMS?

I would distance yourself from him. Download a co parenting app and confine all communication to that. It keeps a log of all communication should this go to court.

Don't let him come into your property and get concrete contact plans. Claim through CMS.

Keep a diary of his behaviour and get a video doorbell. If he gets aggressive, contact the police. It might be an idea to contact a domestic abuse organisation for advice

Child maintenance yes sorry ,, do I apply or not I don't know what to do bout it

Applying will make sure you get a consistent amount every month and he has to pay it. Does he work?

Yes he does

If he's resisting paying even that much then don't be surprised for him to start play stupid games. Leaving his job, going self employed, suddenly wanting 50/50 etc etc. I hope I'm wrong though.

I'm confused about him 'grassing' you up? For what? Does he think you are doing something wrong?