Work

[Brownbrear]

Has anyone else lost their mojo when it comes to work post mat leave? It sounds bad but I just don’t care like I used to. I am no longer interested in going above and beyond, but I worry that people can sense it. I still need the job, and I’m worried they may get rid of me because I don’t work like I used to. Am I just lazy?Any advice is welcome.

Yes, and DS is now 6 😂

Tbh I really struggled at first, but now I've just come to terms with the fact that my priorities in life have shifted and that I don't have the physical or mental energy to spend on work as I used to. That said, i am very focused during work time but when the laptop gets shut at the end of the day I no longer log back on or spend all evening thinking about work; these boundaries help me focus during work hours. I did change job after the first year to something not quite as enjoyable (because this required lots of travel etc) but something that gives a better balance.

From my experience and that of colleagues and friends it isn't unusual, even for those who love their jobs!

I'd say:

Set some boundaries that are realistic for your particular role but that give you a semblance of balance and mean you can focus on your core job

A partner who shares the load around the home and parenting helps- having that down time to relax evenings and weekends even for a bit makes a difference

I didn’t have this after mat leave, no. I really liked work and I really appreciated the break from being at home. But my guess is that you’re probably tired and burnt out. I HAVE felt like this when I was exhausted (unrelated to babies).