I will start with saying my daughter (13)has had a rocky relationship with her father after he kicked us out the family home and moved in his affair partner. She’s recently started going back to his house for over nights but has expressed to me that the gf is behaving in a way that is making her uncomfortable.
apparently she is putting on a squeaky high pitched voice and talking like a child, pronouncing things wrong on purpose. This woman is 29 years old. I asked my daughter if it was just annoying and she said no, it was making her uncomfortable because it almost feels like weird age play. I asked my daughter to elaborate and she said it was too cringe.
my 10 year old then backed her up and confirmed this was indeed happening.
I asked them if they wanted me to talk to dad for them (as much as I don’t want to) both kids were like omg please no it’s too embarrassing, it will cause trouble, he might try to bring it up” I was like okay I won’t.
my son unfortunately will defend all his dads poor behaviour and said “I don’t think she can help it, I think she might have something or a problem” I said do you mean a disability? She can help it, she’s absolutely not disabled??? I’ve known her for years.
both kids have made me promise not to say anything and I don’t want to break there trust but I’m unsure what to do if this is inappropriate behaviour??? It’s bit of an odd one! So not sure how to handle it.