Exactly what the title says. He has a speech delay/hyperlexia diagnosis, and while he is too young to diagnose with autism, indicators are there for highly functioning autism/ADHD (confirmed by doctors, he has had an inital psychologist exam and will keep going back to monitor). He jumps a lot, which is likely him stimming, and is extremely active, runs everywhere, never walks. One big thing is that we can't get him to eat at the dinner table. He will start there for a few minutes, but then always gets up, moves around, plays. He comes back for bites of food, but can't stay seated without an ipad or something to focus on. Circle time at nursery has been very tricky but he now stays for at least the start. The speech delay is definitely part of the issue, as why would you want to sit if you can't follow what people are saying/talk back. Does anyone have any words of wisdom for coping mechanisms until his speech therapy hopefully helps fix this? I see things called wobble pillows that I'm tempted to try at the dinner table. I just feel like I'm feeding a baby bird at every meal by hand, and that we are probably keeping the cycle going. If he were a "normal" child, I'd battle it out more, rather than enable, but the situation is different and I feel very out of my depth as we start to go down the evaluation/diagnosis route. I'd love any solutions from those who have been in a similar boat, even if it is a battle it out.