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DD no friends

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Novembermummy88 · 02/03/2025 20:37

DD 8yo has spent the evening upset that she has no “bond” with anyone at school. It’s very rare she opens up (despite my best efforts) but I’ve known for a while she’s been struggling. She does extra curricular activities outside of school that she has nice friends but they are not local to us due to the type of hobby it is, although she sees them twice a week there. She said things like “people probably think I’m horrible” and is aware that when she goes onto the playground no one is that fussed about playing with her, although she makes every effort to play/form friendships. She’s very mature for her age, and I could tell she had been bottling it up for a while. I’ve done my best with encouraging play dates but they never are reciprocated. She just doesn’t click with any of the girls in her year group. Has anyone experienced this and have any advice? I feel so sorry for her, as far as I am an aware she doesn’t cause a problem at school and is always keen to play. I am worried it’ll knock her confidence over time.

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Wrapmelon · 02/03/2025 21:33

Have you spoken about this with her teacher maybe? They usually have a good idea of what might be going on.

Odras · 02/03/2025 21:51

Yes I would speak to the school straight away. I’d also keep up the play dates. Try group play dates so identity a child she is somewhat friendly with and identity their friends. Invite all of them over - or maybe on a trip like bowling. it will create a shared experience for them, which might help her out.

mismomary · 02/03/2025 22:03

I agree with the group play date or sleepover - maybe three come over, then it's no pressure on one person, more relaxing and more fun.

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