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I think my daughter is autistic

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Lilacbluewaters · 25/02/2025 00:12

As the title says, my Dd is now 6 and as she gets older especially since starting school everything changed and she struggles a lot day in day out. Especially during school term time.
at the moment she is really struggling with friendships, we just got home from spending the weekend wjth family who have two 8/9 year old girls and my daughter mirrors everything one of them does and even starts to sound like her! She was so upset as they were leaving her out and running away from her, she can become explosive when she can’t cope and she was screaming with anger and tears in the park because they weren’t playing with her. She was screaming at them and so upset but they just laughed at her. My heart hurts for her because I know she struggles in school too, she says people run away from you and don’t want to play with her but I also know she masks in school and even with family, she masks or mirrors their actions/personality to fit in with them.
I think she could be autistic and she is waiting to be seen by a paediatrician as late last year she really struggled and became very withdrawn and honestly what you’d say is depressed in an adult. I don’t know how to help her make a friend, I feel she just needs one good friend but she says to me she wants lots of friends. Tonight she said she feels different to everyone else :( but she just cried and doesn’t know why.
is anyone’s child similar? How do you help them?

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xmasdealhunter · 25/02/2025 01:03

Take her to see the GP, and if they agree that they think she is autistic then ask to go down the Right to Choose pathway. It's an NHS service but has a much much shorter waitlist than the general NHS one. You'll need to name a provider, Right to choose ADHD & autism assessments | Clinical Partners do assessments online or you can see if you have a provider that does face to face near you.
Does your DD do any activities outside of school? My eldest DD is autistic and she struggled making friends in school, but found it much easier to get along with people that have a shared interest in something. We also found the Woodcraft folk groups very autism friendly, and my DD made several friends both through the weekly sessions and through the summer camps that they run. They are focussed around nature, being sustainable etc and do similar activities to that of Brownies (which my DD found difficult to socialise in because our local group was very cliquey, but we may have just been unlucky). The age groups are mixed which she also found useful as she finds it a bit more difficult to make friends her own age. Elfins - Woodcraft Folk

stayathomegardener · 25/02/2025 01:26

Yes to clubs and friends outside school.

A pet? DD loved her childhood dog so much and ferrets were really fun too.

dmfoster · 28/08/2025 17:24

12 yr old hardly speaks seems to resent being raised by grandparents even best life rarely seems happy

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