My ex and I have a 16 month old, I have arranged contact between him and daughter through mediation. It was 1 hour twice a week then progressed to 2 hours twice a week. I have tried to increase it but everything I offer is not acceptable. My ex is now saying he can come and take child when he wants as he has 50/50 parenting, which he has. As my child is so young and ex doesn't have much contact - his choice - I have applied for a C100 for a lives with and his contact which he has been served with. He has said he is ok with lives with, but has now changed his job so he now has Thurs, Fri and Sat off - this was done when he recieved C100 - and wants child on those 3 days. I work Mon - Fri and feel he will have 3 days of quality time where I will have only 1. Yes I have her in the days but child is dropped off to childminder at 7.30 and picked up at 5.30, so I do not get quality time with child as I am feeding, changing, bathing or sleeping. I have suggested Thurs and Fri every week, but going through a staggered increase. That way we both get 2 days a week. He has rejected it, no surprise there. Is a judge likely to say this is a fair compromise in court? I do have a solicitor to go to court with. He has never phoned, text or called me in between contact visits. He has had anger management counselling in the past, which I did not know about. He has also had postnatal depression counselling since birth of child. Our child seems happy to see him, but ex has returned child with bumps - which happen - but he has admitted not treating them, the last 1 being at soft play and resulted in a fair bump and friction burn on face, due to going down the slide without ex. I am not saying ex is mistreating child, just not aware of how to deal with accidents.