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Help! My amazing 3.5 year old sleeper his whole life is now terrified of his bedroom and his dreams please help!!!

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Mumem101 · 20/02/2025 19:36

I feel awful on my son… and juggling a baby too so really don’t want to have to be sleeping with him/juggling stroking him to sleep etc etc so looking for all the tips (and reassurance that it’s normal and maybe a phase?)…

about 9 days ago he was poorly with a fever and had bad dreams all night monster in my bed etc I put it down to fever no dramas… he’s never been one for nightmares or needing help to sleep since he was a tiny baby.
now every night since then it’s been something different in his bed in the night a crab, an octopus, a dog biting him… and now he’s so scared to fall asleep in his room - I bought him a night light so he can see his whole room, he’s got teddies he’s so attached too protecting him… he eventually has been falling asleep (waking in the night still) but at least going to sleep but I can tell he’s so scared.

looking for tips on how to help this phase pass…. Or is it a phase not to worry about and I should just lie with him (I don’t want this to stick and I’m a sucker for thinking things will become habit).

thank you!

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Mumem101 · 20/02/2025 21:14

Bumping 🥹

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User69611 · 20/02/2025 21:20

cuddle the poor boy to sleep!!

Attictroll · 20/02/2025 21:29

Monster dust - I spent a year pretending sprinkling it around my sons room at lights out. Kept all bad dreams away 🥰😂

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Apparently Alexa has a monster checker app available...

TodaysFishIsTroutALaCreme · 20/02/2025 21:37

I went through a similar phase at the same age. My grandmother gave me a stuffed puppy toy and said it was to keep the nightmares away. It worked and I still have that dog 45 years later. Maybe that could help.

Mossstitch · 20/02/2025 23:58

Aww bless him, I'd just bring his mattress in and put it next to you for a while on the floor until he's got over it. I remember one of mine at a similar age saying there were eyes in his room watching him (gave me the creeps at the time I can tell you but then i blamed jess the cat on the postman pat curtains😹) but one of us just slept with him or he trotted into our bed in the middle of the night.
Think I'd be worried about telling him magic dust or a soft toy would stop it as if he had a bad dream after that I'd worry he wouldn't trust me again🤔

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