I am seriously going insane. My 8 month old has been waking at the same time for monthsssss, it is like clockwork (10-11pm), but recently it’s taking hours to resettle him. I really need help because I’m losing my mind 8I don’t know what else to do, he will settle on me and when I put him back down in his room give or take 2 minutes he’s awake whinging. I’ve tried the ferber method and he just gets absolutely hysterical and inconsolable. He can fall into the deepest sleep on me, I’ll put him down and he’ll be awake. It usually resorts to co-sleeping as I’m just so exhausted. Sometimes I even wake around 3 and move him back to his own bed and he’ll wake up straight away again despite being in such a deep sleep. This is the case regardless of how much milk/solids he’s had through the day, nap quality, bed time (bed time is 7:30 i’ve moved it 30 mins either way with no difference), when I suspect teething pain I’m giving pain relief and anbesol liquid. At first I suspected regression or developmental changes but this has genuinely been going on every night for about 4 months I don’t know what to do anymore. I try to refrain from putting him in my bed but I genuinely don’t know what else to do when I’m so exhausted. On the occasion he does settle eventually this will then happen again 2-3am. Then he wants to wake for the day at 6am. It’s making me depressed I feel I can’t be the parent I want to be as I’m barely functioning throughout the day, I feel awful when I’m counting down the minutes to bed time but then when he does go to bed I’m filled with anxiety I can’t relax, I have no downtime as I know what’s coming come 10pm (usually as soon as I close my eyes.