I have a 9 month old and a nearly 3 year old. My parents split when I was 8 but my dad was never an active parent, he was there and did stuff with me but never proper parenting. It wasn't the best childhood and I went through a lot of MH issues as a teenager.
I have a good relationship with both parents and my in laws but have so much anxiety about leaving the kids, stems from when I'm younger. I'm ok with my mum and getting better with my in laws but I just can't get there with my dad. I just don't trust him. He's the only one who has really grumbled when we have like set out ground rules etc. I'm just really struggling to get passed it and I know it's affecting my dad and I am starting to feel it's making us both more distant.
I don't know how to move forwards with it but I jsur can't get passed my trust issues..