We have just had an offer accepted on a beautiful house in the next town along (5-10 min drive).
This has been our second attempt to sell and move in two and a half years, but originally we were not entertaining a move away from our current town.
Over the past two and a half years, our disdain for the area has grown, and the next town along is much more desirable with less crime and less degeneration.
All good, but I have been adamant that we would not move our DD's school. This is largely down to my own experience; my parents split when I was 9 years old, we then moved 250 miles to the other side of the country. After just 18 months, I went to Secondary School alone. This experience had a profound effect on me, and as adult I still struggle to make friends and maintain relationships.
I know my DD is not me, she's outgoing and has always loved going to new places and meeting new people. Although I have noted in the past year or so, she has been a bit more nervous or emotional about new things. I was taken aback when she cried about being moved up a stage in swimming a few months ago, because 'she wouldn't be with her friends'.
We are thinking that in the short term, we will be able to drive her back to her current school so she can finish her current year. And look for her to start a new school in September. Giving her a few years still at Primary to make friends to go Secondary School with.
Can anyone share any positive experiences of this? How they supported their children with this transition?
Please send me some positivity, I know this move will be best for us eventually, and I know the circumstances are different to my own experience.