Think about having a 3rd child all the time. Have two children already, eldest is 3yr5m, youngest is 16m.
Anecdotally, everyone seems keen to warn against having a third and there are some strong views around about having a larger age gap between no.2 and no.3.
Is having a 3rd a crazy thing to do? Would a similar age gap (2yr-2.5yrs) be too tight?
We're fortunate that finances can support it, we have enough space, and can cover the outlay needed for a bigger car. I think it would be a slog for the first year or so, but both feel that we have enough space in our family to welcome another person. And yet people give warnings/advice for a reason!