Advise needed please.
I have 2 children with my ex partner. Separated 3.5 years.
He brought the children home late when he last had them. He'd asked to bring them home at 8 and I said that was too late for a Sunday night (the youngest goes to bed at 8) and said it can be later than usual (they normally come home at 4) but 7 at the latest. It was so they could have dinner at his dad's house who lives about 40 minutes away so not a special occasion.
He brought them back at 7.45 and the youngest was fast asleep. I challenged him and he shouted at me and called me a c**t several times. He also threatened to beat up my dad and brother. This was said in front of his wife. I phoned the police and reported this.
He has now text and said he can't pick the children up this weekend and I will need to drop them off. No mention of the previous incident.
Do I just ignore it too? Do I try and hold him to account for the way he spoke to me and the threats he made? How do I word it so I am not being confrontational? Thanks in advance.