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Am I talking to my baby correctly?

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DeedlessIndeed · 03/02/2025 11:24

I am really aware of the impact that interacting with your baby has on their development. I've got a 6 month old DD. As she gets older though, the more I'm second guessing myself on how I should be interacting with her.

So at the weekend, my sister was visiting. DD was on the floor on her playmat with a little toy plane she likes.

I was sat next to DD and saying things like "do you like the wheels on the plane? They go around. The plane needs those for take-off and landing on the runway." Then when DD dropped the plane or shook it violently I'd say "Oh watch out for the turbulence" or "poor passengers, they'll have a headache". That kind of thing.

My sister asked why I was saying things like this. Her thoughts were that you should speak more slowly, use more questions and avoid confusing DD with language that isn't that important for a 6 month old. So instead of words like runway, take-off or turbulence use words that refer to daily habits such as eating, sleeping etc, or higher frequency words like high vs low, soft vs hard, big vs small.

I brushed it off at the time, but after a quick google it does seem to be that DSis might be right? I'm now second-guessing myself.

Does anyone have any advice? Interacting with babies doesn't come naturally to me, but I really want to do best for my baby.

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Footle · 03/02/2025 21:16

I sat near a young woman the other day. She was holding her 2 month old in one arm with her phone in the other hand a few inches from his face. She didn't speak to him in the ten minutes I was there. They were both mesmerised by the phone. I hope she was just tired , and would normally be talking to him. @DeedlessIndeed , you're doing fine.

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