Hi there,
I've just had to start back work early from maternity leave because my boyfriend lost his job. My son is 8 months and i was supposed to have the year off. Unfortunately this is during my son's 3-2 nap transition so he's not exactly sleeping well during the night when he used to sleep the whole night! I work as a nurse so it's 12 hour shifts on my feet so me and dad agreed he would do nights while i'm working ( i only work 3 days a week) as i used to do all the night feeds before he lost his job. On day 6 now of getting up with baby at 3am and having to stay up. I'm even doing it on my days off! i'm absolutely exhausted and everytime i wake up dad because the baby monitor is going off he starts arguing with me or doesn't look after the baby properly so i have to take over. Dad goes to bed late every night so he thinks it's fair that i have to do the whole night even now that im back at work because he goes to bed at 1am. I think im losing my mind with tiredness. And i cant seem to debate this healthily with him because i am so tired and snappy and he's snappy bc he's an arsehole. tips???