I am looking for advice on a current situation I have. A almost 14 year old daughter since around age of 5 she has had extreme mood changes. This is also the age she was when I had my second child but since age 5 she has had rages,outbursts,uncontrollable behaviour can one second be the nicest kid and switch instantly towards me and family members. I have tried therapy with her joint and her alone I have spoke to gps,school basically asked for help and nones has been given but a 6 week therapy session. Which they say after they was happy she was ok. But my daughter is very good at showing a side she wants people to see. as yrs have gone on this behaviour has got too extremes such as due too her fighting I had too change schools 2 times and now have too homeschool as school was giving us no support. I have done mental health referrals spoke to experts nothing has been done from this. Until finally other day in a fit of rage from her she smashed up my home and I had to barricade myself behind a door while on phone to police as I didn’t feel safe. This isn’t first time this happened but it’s first time I found strength too call police on my own child in hope it would make her realise this needs too stop. now as police have attended my gp and police have contacted mental health crisis team for my child. obvs this means SS have become involved I am someone that suffers anxiety about this due too how many years I have been beat down by my child and think SS will judge me as a parent and take my children away but I didn’t have any choice my teen will end up hurting someone me or end up in prison with how she is if she doesn’t get help and I am crying out for help cause I want her too be happy and protected but cause I had too involve these people I am now worried sick with extreme anxiety over if me telling them what my kid is like they will think it’s not safe for my smaller child too be here and take her and this child is the most joyful happy loving kid I have protected her from all off this so she is hardly aware of her sisters outbursts I just feel like I have failed my teen as a mum for having too go too these levels too get her help she needs and I am struggling too cope with idea of SS thinking my small daughter isn’t ok in house cause she is she wants too always be with me tells me all time we are best friends I guess. I just feel like have I done the right thing asking for help before it’s too late and my teen ruins her life or gets very mentally poorly. also too note my teen admits she feels nothing that when she cries it’s all fake and she feels nothing she laughs when she sees how much pain she is causing me and she has said that she can’t remember the fits after they have finnished x