Father has Supervised access by court

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My child's father took me to court for access, because I stopped him having our son,due to him being intoxicated with friends when he had our son smoking weed and child wasn't given any dinner.We have gone through caffcass and court and he refused to have drink and drug testing So they said supervised contact with the father's sister being the supervisor.
The last time he had hom he actually took him to his for an hour without his sister present Am I being a bitch for notifying court of this? He's breached the court order hasn't he?

Of course you aren't being a bitch. You don't need to notify the court unless you plan to apply to vary the court order. You can give him a warning in writing (text will do) that you're aware that he breached and if he does it again state you will go back to court. You probably won't be able to vary the court order after just one breach (unless it was extremely serious and dangerous)

I forgot to add that we're back in court this week to see how these past months have been Thank you for replying x

In that case you need to update the court and leave it in their hands

Update the court! Abort all contact until the court notifies you. Keep all your evidence. This is about keeping your children safe. I'm unfortunately in a position where Ive been at court with my d.a ex for 20 months now. He is using cocaine ketamine mdma and 2cb which is new to me. Hes refused a 2nd drug test after testing positive to the first 3month hair stand test. My mum has got to suoervise him until May every other Sunday. I honestly don't get it. If us mothers or fathers that look after our children mentally physically and financially full time did drugs the children would be taken off us. Np suoervised contact woukd be allowed. How isit a mentally unwell drug user can attend court and determine what they want and it be supported by the courts. Any help would be appreciated as I'm really lost now. I just want to protect my children.

I will let you know what happens Friday in court, I totally understand and agree with you were trying to protect our children.He has children from a previous relationship and they are constantly lying because he has made them over the years,I will do anything to protect my child and save my child from being treat like that..I've informed my solicitor so see what happens Friday.He also refused his drink and drug tests