I have 2 boys (6 and 3) and I’m really struggling with them my 6 year old is constantly disobeying has a lot of attitude and generally doesn’t care for anything or anything me no matter what I say it’s “no” or “I don’t want to” but he talks to me with so much crap, my 3 year old has learnt to use the toilet but just won’t do it at all here or at nursery, will do it at his grandmas but not with me, he always wants his grandma and his dad (me and dad arnt together) to a point he will scream and run away when I pick him up from nursery because it’s me and not grandma he he just cries for grandma all the time, I’m seriously struggling all the time all day every day they completely destroy everything and when I ask them to tidy up what they destroyed I just get talked to with crap and told no it’s getting so bad that I’m sat in bed not wanting my kids anymore and want to give them away, I just don’t know what to do anymore