3 year old used to be great at independent play but has very recently become a lot clingier and wants me to play with him a lot. It's utterly tedious and repetitive. I understand the value in it for us for both (to an extent!) but I honestly can't stand it, especially in its current iteration!
Does anyone else just tell their child "no, I don't want to play right now because I'm doing <insert literally anything else to avoid playing>"? I do play with him but I keep it to an absolute minimum so maximum of 1 hour a day on days he's not at nursery. We do plenty of other things together, especially outdoors, but I just don't want to play.
When I tell him firmly that I will not be playing at the moment he does go off and play alone. I get moments of guilt, but honestly... fuck it! I hope I'm setting him up to play well alone like I did growing up- my dad took me out a lot and my mum did lots of baking and crafts with me. But neither of them were down on the floor playing with toys with me, and I don't feel I missed out on anything. We had and still have a great relationship. I've never thought "I wish they played with me more"