We have two beautiful dds 5 1/2 and 3. They are good kids but can (like most kids I am sure) drive me up the wall. They squabble non-stop but stick together whenever I tell one of them off for something. They have never been fantastic sleepers and we are quite often up in the night with at least one them every night.
At the birth of DD1 she had the cord around her neck but a bit of oyxgen was given and she was fine. DD2 was also born with the cord around her neck but it took a bit longer to get her out. When she was born she wasn't breathing and she had to be rushed out of the room and resusitated with chest compressions and oxygen. (This scared dh to bits whilst I was oblivious to it all and high as a kite on gas and air!!) I often wonder if it we would be so lucky to have them recover if we took the chance again.
Dh and I have had hardly any time to ourselves (as do most parents I'm sure) and are both feeling exhausted with parenting and dealing with every day things. I have suffered with PND since dd2 was born and didn't admit to this until she was 1 year old. I went onto ADs for a few months but didn't find they helped me a great deal so came off. I have struggled along without any medication but know that I am still not feeling right and dh is feeling it too .
Amongst all this I can't believe that I still have feelings that I would like to have another baby. Dh does not feel the same. Am I mad??
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Why do I want another baby??
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SPARKLER1 · 09/01/2005 16:51
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