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Bullying in year 9

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MM1972 · 27/11/2024 00:36

Our son had a mild cold on Monday. We sent him to school but we're sure he'd want home early. Last 2 periods were PE.

My partner went to get him. He complained about being bullied. A larger kid had emptied his bag of books over the floor and kept hiding books leaving our son crying. He had no break because of this. The kid had also put him in a headlock and punched him on the back a few weeks previously and is frequently making comments belittling our son.

Our son has been afraid to tell anyone as he does not want the bully to know he's told on him and be picked on even more, Apparentky the bully targets lots of people by pulling chairs out from under people. He also casually kicked out year 8 son in the corridor leaving him with bruises.

Our year 9 son is asking to change school.

I don't think my son is overly sensitive. Do you think the bully thinks he is doing harmless japes and doesn't realise the damage he is doing?

My cousin is a teacher and I've asked him about it. In his school a girl in year 12 was physically knocked unconscious by a girl in year 11 over speaking to a boyfriend. Thankfully our sons school is not that rough.

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Duck12 · 28/11/2024 00:31

Make an appointment to see the head teacher. Make a note of everything that has happened to your son and make an official complaint and ask what is the school going to to do about your son being physically assaulted? Ask what is their anti/bullying policy? Then you can say that that the school has a duty of care to protect your son without him living in fear about attending school. If things get no better, contact your local LEA and make a further complaint. Be clear with the head that they must stop this happening to your son and don’t be fobbed off. I empathise how very upsetting it must be for your son and the family - in the meantime I think I’d be tempted to look at other schools as well

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