Got the dreaded "can I have a quick chat" this morning at school drop off.
God knows how but I managed to send DD in yesterday with no knickers on (absolutely cant fathom how I've managed that, in all the 5 years I've been dressing her I've never managed to forget her underwear. We have all been ill, we have family member in hospital just generally alot on my mind and running on not much sleep which is obviously no excuse as its a pretty basic thing isnt is? To make it even worse I spent quite a lot of time plaiting her hair, put spare clothes in her bag encase she got wet playing in the snow, but didnt put any effing pants on her!
Apparently DD thought it would be funny to show another child in her class (she was wearing joggers, it was PE day) that she wasn't wearing pants, the child told their parents who then raised it with the teacher.
Teacher has assured me the other parents aren't upset as DD clearly found it hilarious and there was nothing more to it, but to be fair I probably wouldn't be happy if I was in their shoes. Teacher has said its not been raised as safe guarding issue but Im feeling a bit paranoid, you'd keep an eye on them wouldn't you?
Im mortified, firstly that I sent her in without pants and that she she thought it would be funny to flash another child - we've had all the chats, she knows it isn't appropriate. She wont even get changed in front of anyone other than me and her Dad, why would she think that's appropriate?! Is it just something kids think is funny, should I be worried?
I'll be having a chat with her tonight and make sure she knows its not appropriate but Im just so embarrassed, its a small village school, two of her friends mums are TA's at the school, we live minutes from the school and some of our neighbors children are in her class - I dread to even think who it is.
Should I speak to the child parents (assuming DD tells me who it was) I feel like I owe them an apology, they were obviously upset enough to mention it to the teacher?