Hi everyone I was looking for some advice. My baby is now 10 months old and has no contact with his father except from at the birth. When I told him I was pregnant he was not happy at all and wanted me to terminate. I decided to keep the baby and then he started making excuses saying he needed a dna test before he was even born!! (Bear in mind he was the one that cheated!) he would send me the most mixed messages. One minute he would be texting me saying how excited he is and the next he would say he’s not mine and he’s not going to provide anything. This went on until I gave birth. He never came to any of the appointments and the one that he did attend I got induced so I allowed him to be at the birth. Him and the baby did skin to skin as he wished and he came to see him while I was in the hospital for a few days. When I went home I heard nothing from him at all and he didn’t even ask our baby was okay so I decided to register him on my own as he was so unstable with his words and Acton’s. He then texted me saying he wanted a dna test which I was shocked about as they looked almost identical when they were born and everybody said it! He would text me every couple of weeks demanding I put him on the birth verticals because “he wanted his own home” I was soo offended and upset how he could be like this so I refused the dna test and the birth certificate. I woukd then hear that he was living his best life and telling everybody that I stopped him from seeing his baby but I said multiple times you can see him whenever you want and even asked him if he wanted to but he chose not to. I would go months without hearing from him and then he would come back to say something else. I said that he could have the dna test because I was just sick of hearing it to be honest. After that hi didn’t hear anything from him for weeks and the next thing I hear is that he is going to court for joint custody and he wants him 3 days a week. I get a lower today stating I have to attend court and it says everything he has said about me and it is all lies! He has said so much stuff which is not true and actually the other way around. This man has a drug problem and his whole family do which he lives with just to add. I’m just utterly shocked he could put me through this after I’ve been easing his baby on my own!! Has anybody experienced something like this and what was the outcome?