Hi. I don't really know where to go or what to do about this. My childs father and I split up when he was 1 year old. His father didn't want to. It was all me after he was emotionally abusive forwards me and would never look after my son while I went to work, his father would stay up all night and sleep most of the day. The one time I left my son with him for an hour I came back to find his father asleep and my son sitting next to the front door. After that it was my parents who looked after my son. After he left he moved back to his hometown over 300miles away. He called a few times and that was it. We haven't seen him for 13 years and he has now sent my son a friend request on Facebook, which he has accepted a few days ago but his father hasn't contacted him since. My son is now upset by this and doesn't understand what he wants of why he hasn't messaged him. I really don't know what to do. I don't want my son to be upset by this. I know his father is going to let him down.